What's the message?

What is the universe telling us?



Is it giving us a sign that we need to understand?



I am as confused as ever. You see this coming 23rd, my in laws decided to have our Christmas gathering here at our place on a Saturday instead of Christmas morning reasons:


~Since Christmas falls on a Monday, the next day we got work
~Traffic will be a lot lesser than Sunday night or Monday morning
~Spend time with each other a little bit longer
~Saturday is the only day that most of us are available
~Some nephew are working on Christmas day itself
~Made the plan since everyone said "YES"


We planned it and now here comes the excuses part.

~Father in law doesn't feel like celebrating ( what's new )
~Other brother in law had a previous commitment "months ago". (nothing new at all)
~Sister in law's new place just got broken into but she is fine but worried too much for what will have happen if she leaves for the weekend.
~Husband not feeling that well but he said he will be OK. (ongoing sickness)
~I, for once doesn't feel a good vibe of energy after getting up this morning.


Seems like the universe is sending us messages could it be just messages, a coincidence or something else?