Problem Solver

Sometimes I wonder, do I look like a problem solver?
People think that because you are the oldest you are bound to solve the problem.
A problem that you didn't create and wasn't involved at it until now.

Sometimes I asked myself, is it ok to say no?
Or sorry can't help you with that?
Or now your asking for my help what for?

But sometimes, because you loved them and cared for them,
that you do not want to hurt their feelings...
When honestly it's the truth.

Do I look like a solver to the problems they create?
Makes me wonder a million times....